No? Well, neither have I. You see I lived my life the first born of two girls, or so I thought. For 32 blissful years I was the queen of the pack, the leader, the first born, which of course you know means the most loved and adored. Sorry to all those second, third, etc. of you out there, but you know first borns are way special in a "we are the best" sort of way. Well, at 32 years old I learned the truth and I have to tell you it was a shock. I am not the first born of two girls. I am a middle child - A MIDDLE CHILD!!!! What does that mean? I'm now the peacemaker not the plan maker. I'm now the one stuck between two things, not the one in the front. I'm the one that will have the complex because I'm not the oldest or the baby of the family. I'm the one everyone overlooks, not the one everyone looks to for direction. How do you middle children do it? I'm going to have to have a heart-to-heart with my middle son. I may just promote him to first born for a year, just to give him a thrill. If my parents can spring an older brother on me at 32 years of age, than I can promote my middle child.
So there is the teaser for tomorrow's true life story that rocked my world. Now, go hug a middle child, please.
Favorite sister?
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20 comments:
Can't wait to hear the story! That's crazy! ;-)
That is a heck of a surprise!
Can't wait to hear the story. But, if I remember from my birthorder book, the first sibling of the opposite sex has many first born tendencies. And, when there is a gap of (?) 6 years between children, the order starts over again. Hope that makes sense...waiting for my tea to steep! ;-)
I'm a middle child and never had a problem with it that I was able to blame on being the second born.
But hey, if anyone wants to throw a hug my way, I'm all for it Lol!
BTW, now you have me curious!
I'm a first born and I agree with your assestment of how we are viewed/treated.
I have a friend that found TWO siblings that her mother had put up for adoption long before she was born when she was 30. I can't wait to hear your story!
Oh wow! I can't wait for the story.
I am REALLY looking forward to the rest of that story!
My mom is a middle child -- I'll give her an extra hug when I see her! :-)
Has it really made a difference in how you look on life? I heard it does but since you didn't know for 32 years I am curious. I am a big sister to a little sister...but she beat me up all the time!
Can't wait for the rest of the story!
I am very curious to find out the rest of this story.
WOW! I'll be waiting to hear the rest of this story.
My goodness! I'll be waiting right here until you fill us in the details!
I can not wait to hear this story!!!!!
I am on pins and needles waiting for your story tomorrow... it sounds like it's going to be a doozy.
My grama found out at the ripe old age of 58 that the man she thought was her father her entire life was actually her adoptive dad. It rocked her world. I'm intrigued by your teaser!
~Elizabeth
Confessions From A Working Mom
What an intriguing and funny post! I can't wait to read all about it!!!
If I'm the second of 4 and my brother (#3) and I share the middle child status. No body cares but that's all good 'cuz at least we have eachother =)
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Hm.... speechless! Wow! Note to self: visit tomorrow! ;) I only have a first born and last born! Guess that is one bonus to having only 2!! Snee you tomorrow...
Thanks for visiting today!
Just Jenn~
Can't wait! Will definitely be stopping by tomorrow!
Looking forward to reading more ..! As older child, curious to see about middle child life!
Wow, you are remarkably calm about the whole thing. Can't wait to learn more about it.
Oh my, from a first born, I don't know what I would do to find out I wasn't one...you are dealing with it quite well...what a great idea to rotate our children's birth orders...can we really do that? =)
i have a half brother out there somewhere. i've met him. once.
i found out when my father's girlfriend died - giving birth to him.
and that's pretty much all there is to my story.
also. i will have to make you an award during my next award post. i've never watched lost. so. i'm sure i can wing it... but you'll get your sawyer award. you will. and i know that'll be yet another stepping stone towards your acceptance to the amazing race.
don't forget to wear "team wendiwinn" shirts. word.
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